"We live in a loud world and it is inevitable that we
or someone we love, will have some hearing loss," said Kathy Landau Goodman,
Audiology Awareness Campaign President and Chairman of the Board of Directors.
The stress and excitement of gatherings can affect those
with hearing impairments more than others. Following are 10 tips to ensure
guests have a good time and conversations flow more smoothly:
- When speaking to someone who can't hear well, face
the person directly so that he or she can read your lips, and take cues
from your facial expressions and body language.
- Speak slowly and clearly. Avoid exaggerated lip movements
and shouting.
- Make sure you have the person's attention before starting
to talk. A gentle tap on the shoulder or raising of a finger can signal
that you are going to speak.
- Do not obscure your face and mouth with your hands
or other distractions (eating or smoking for example).
- If you are asked to repeat yourself several times,
try rephrasing your sentence instead of becoming frustrated. Some words
may "look" the same to those who are reading lips.
- Beware of the environment. Large, crowded rooms can
be very difficult for hearing impaired persons. Turn off the television,
radio and reduce other background noise. Bright lights and shadows may
also present barriers.
- Get to know about the person and his or her interests
the same way you would with anyone else. The range of interests you share
may surprise you.
- If you sense someone is not following the conversation,
offer to clarify or explain later.
- There is a wide range of hearing losses and communication
methods. If you don't know the individual's preferred method or don't
know what to do to help, please ask.
- Have paper and pens available as well as other activities
such as cards and jigsaw puzzles that don't require a lot of conversation.
As a hearing-impaired listener, some social situations
are uncomfortable. Identify conditions that affect your ability to participate
in conversations and make specific requests to improve the situation.
Or, try some of the following:
- Find the quietest location possible to converse.
- Get as close as you can to the person who is speaking.
Seat yourself where you can have a full view of the person talking.
- If you don't understand something, ask questions. Don't
bluff or pretend to have heard something when you haven't.
- Explain that you have a hearing loss and politely let
others know how to best communicate with you.
- Avoid being close to walls or other hard surfaces that
sound can bounce off of. Adequate lighting, echo-muffling rugs and curtains
will help.
- Educate yourself about the many hearing devices and
services available. Attend a coping skills or lip reading class and encourage
friends and family to go too.
Individuals with mild to moderate hearing loss may be
unaware of the problem even though family and friends can be quite conscious
of it. Most hearing loss develops over a period of 25 to 30 years and
can be contributed to such factors as noise, family history or the natural
aging process. According to the National Institutes of Health, noise is
responsible for one-third of adult hearing loss. By age 50 or 60, there
can be enough deterioration to interfere with conversation.
Hearing loss is often painless, develops slowly and worsens
with age. Some physical warning signs include ringing in the ear(s), muffled
speech sounds or the inability to hear a speaker three feet away after
leaving a noisy area.
Only one in five people with a hearing loss seeks help
and therefore most people experience a reduced quality of life. Protect
your hearing by visiting an audiologist for a hearing test and being aware
of noises in your life that pose potential harm to your ears (busy restaurants,
traffic, stereos and lawn mowers, for example).
"If we just take a few precautions, we can enjoy loud
events like rock concerts and NASCAR races without the risk of hearing
loss," said Landau Goodman. "Wearing ear protection (earplugs or muffs)
usually makes the experience more enjoyable and may just save your hearing."
Remember that we live in a noisy world! You can't eat
in a restaurant, attend a movie, shop at the local mall or be put on hold
over the telephone without being bombarded by loud sounds. Increased noise
levels in our lives can cause ear damage that can interfere with your
ability to interact with others, cause misunderstandings and heighten
stress.
For more information (a free 15-page booklet called
"Listen Up America"), or to find an audiologist in your area, call 1-888-833-EARS
(3277) or visit the Web site at www.audiologyawareness.com.
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